Confirmation Sponsor Guidelines

If you’re planning to receive your Confirmation next spring, please submit your sponsor’s information by Thanksgiving 2026.

Here are some guidelines to help you pick a Confirmation sponsor.

Sponsor Requirements

To be a Confirmation sponsor in the Catholic Church, generally, one needs to meet the following requirements:

  1. Age: be at least 16 years old.
  2. Sacraments: be a confirmed Catholic yourself and have received the Eucharist.
  3. Faithful Life: be actively practicing your faith and living according to Catholic teachings.
  4. Not the Parent: cannot be the candidate’s parent; the role is meant to be a mentor and guide.

Choosing a Sponsor

When choosing a Confirmation sponsor, take your time to reflect on the important people in your life. Here are some suggestions to help you as you make your choice:

  • Think about the qualities you want your sponsor to have.
  • Think about people who are good examples for you.
  • Ask yourself if one of your godparents would be a good sponsor.
  • Talk with your parents and other family members about who would be a good choice.
  • Pray to the Holy Spirit.
  • Talk with your sponsor and explain why you chose him or her; remember to share with them their responsibility.

What a Sponsor Can Do

  • Spend time getting to know their candidate, possibly taking them out to dinner or lunch, or inviting them over to your home, discussing and listening to the candidate’s spirituality.
  • Meet with their candidate regularly throughout this year of preparation and discuss in greater detail the topics addressed in the preparation sessions.
  • Share their faith story with their candidate. Pray for and with the candidate.

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